Wednesday 25 October 2006

Tip-Toes


These last couple of days we have been walking on tip-toes around Ethan as he's been sleeping very lightly. He's fine at night but during the day he's awake lots and only sleeps very short amounts, so Mum has had to keep the milk bar open almost all day which makes her quite tired.

Mr. Fish floating in the pic is from this great musical mobile we got from Renata's church office. And the Smiling Worm (left) is a new toy from one of the ladies in Ivan's church. Very funny cos she gave it to him after he preached last Sunday and the closing illustration (for light at the end of the dark tunnel of depression and being downcast) was Ethan's worm in his ear! So our musical tapeworm toy will be a reminder of this milestone event. Everyone's been asking, but we still haven't heard what type of worm it was...

Sunday 22 October 2006

Fry-Day


Sundays has become fry-day for us, not only because after a ministry weekend it feels like Friday... it's also because we've been eating so much from the food delivery service from Monday to Friday and we need comfort food from our deep fryer. This week, it's been Japan-fest as Renata's parents brought the long forbidden (during pregnancy) sashimi for lunch on Saturday. Being inspired, Ivan prepared a tempura dinner on Sunday to celebrate the end of preparation and delivery of his message on Psalm 42, When Feeling Downcast (new church website coming online soon!)

Saturday 21 October 2006

Baby Aerobics!

Ethan's first video on his own blog! Check out how active our little boy can be at only 3 weeks.

Friday 20 October 2006

All Smiles


Now that the mystery of the painful ear has been solved Ethan is back to his usual self and even flashed us a sustained smile (?) while enjoying his morning bath today!

He is now 3 weeks old and its been fascinating watching him grow. He's noticeably heavier and definitely longer (or taller?!) now -- been getting harder to swaddle him! Must be all the powerful confinement food that he has been getting via Mummy!

Thursday 19 October 2006

Cleaned Out


At the ENT clinic today, Ethan was given a clean bill of health. Dr. Lynn Lim is a pediatric ENT specialist. She took a look and said that Ethan's ear drum was not perforated, just a bit scratched from the horrible worm that was in his ear (see previous post!). They suctioned out his ear which caused more wailing due to the loud sound it makes and we took him home.

As for the worm, they're not sure whether it's even a worm or some kind of larvae. The nasty bug is being sent to parisitology where they can hopefully tell us what it is and how it got into poor Ethan's ear.

Wednesday 18 October 2006

The Mystery of the Painful Ear



Poor little Ethan... He was so happy last night when I fed him but this morning he was getting cranky and in the afternoon he was sleeping and bawling in 30-60 min intervals. Because of this Renata only managed to eat lunch at 5pm, and had noticed a few scratch marks on his left ear. She took a photo, emailed it to me and phoned. One three-party conference call with Dr Lim Ah Yeh, a few emails of the ear and Dad was flying back home (good to have fast bike) to check it out.

We had a closer look at home and I got in there with a flashlight. Things had worsened and peering into canal you can see from the picture above that poor Ethan's ear was a mess. It looked like an ear infection so we went to NUH where they have a children's A&E department. After a brief wait (they were very good) the medical officer scoped the ear amidst very loud protests that broke Mummy's heart. He then looked up with a puzzled expression and said, "I'm not sure if I'm seeing things...but I think there's a worm in your son's ear!"

The ENT specialist was called and in 15 min she came and took a look. Subsequent scopes by both MO and the specialist revealed no traces of the worm. Having a worm in one's ear, let alone the ear of a 2.5 week old baby is quite unheard of. Indeed Dr Lim Ah Yeh of Specialist Clinic said that in his 40+ years of practice he has pulled strange things like bees out of ears, but never a worm. Thus, the specialist said it was quite unlikely to be a worm. Instead, it was probably worm-like flakes of skin coming off due to a common ear infection of children. The MO not only looked embarrassed but even said that he was. After all, how silly he was to think there could have been a worm in a baby's ear...

Anyway the doctor said that they would flush his ear with antiobitics for the ear infection. If there was a worm this would also "drown the worm". If it were then to crawl out we were to kill it! Gasp... sounds like Aliens, but okay we'll do it and since we're at the hospital now let's do the first flushing here.

I held Ethan who had calmed down now that the nasty scope was no longer in his ear canal. We dropped 4 drops in his ear and 5 seconds later a WORM SWAM TO THE SURFACE! Even the doctors were amazed! "There's a worm! A worm! Quick, give me the forceps!" The worm wriggled in the pool of antiobiotic fluid as the precision forceps deftly plucked it out of Ethan's ear. Everyone gasped in amazement while Ethan now looked completely peaceful.

We don't know yet what type of worm it was or how it got there. The doctors quickly took digital photos of it (I should have asked them for a copy there and then!) and soon a few other doctors and nurses came to see the worm that crawled out of this baby boy's ear. It must also be added that they praised his bravery for even a grown man would have cried out of pain if a worm to crawl into his ear.

So we're back home now. All bedsheets, linens, clothing and car-set liners are soaking in antiseptic. Ethan has completely tired himself out and is sleeping. We'll be flushing his ear again soon, and watching in case more worms swim out. Tomorrow at 9am we'll be going into the hospital again where the ENT Clinic has the full equipment to do a detailed microscopic examination of his ear. We'll need to confirm there are no more worms, and hopefully find out where the worms came from.

Staying Up Late...

I stayed up tonight to do the first late night feed with some expressed milk. This was one of the best feeds I've managed to give Ethan. He drank well, burped quickly mid-way, finished off his mid-night snack and promptly fell asleep on my chest as I sat back and continued to pat those last gas bubbles away. It is indeed amazing to see this little one so perfectly formed (knit in his mother's womb no less) yet still so helpless and completely dependant on me.

Since I'm up, I'm also working on my sermon this weekend on Psalm 42 - what to do when we're feeling downcast and depressed. Ethan is peacefully back to sleep so I shall plod on a little longer before my own snooze time...

Ivan

Tuesday 17 October 2006

Burping Better


I think we're getting the burping problem down! We can especially tell if there's a "gas problem" by the shape of his little tummy. A few different burping positions and some patience gets the work done. It sure pays to spend good time burping so that he sleeps better and is happier in the long run. Sleepy boy is very happy today in Grandma's (Por Por) arms at lunch time just now.

Ethan's coming to 3 weeks old now... We can see his facial features changing slightly and his limbs are growing too. So glad we took many photos in his first few weeks so we can remember these fast changing times.

Sunday 15 October 2006

Keeping the Home Clean


Ivan's power supply in his PC died an early death, so he used the opportunity to gut the 4 year old innards and put everything in a new case. Renata almost always takes pictures when Ivan plays with his boys toys. You can imagine how dusty PCs get, so this was a good way to make sure everything is clean. Some hidden shelves behind our desk and cable management system means that there are ZERO cables or wires on the floor. Our two slim-line PCs now sit behind our LCD monitors to keep things as dust-free as possible. This is important cos Ethan's cot will be moved into this room soon and it will become both a baby room and a study. Only 2 bedrooms in our cute l'il home now!

Saturday 14 October 2006

Saturday Food


On weekdays we get a food delivery service which is Chinese and Nonya food. We've never eaten so much rice before! So on the weekends we try to have some other genres. Ivan scrounged the fridge and came up with this for a lovely couple time at home while Ethan was sleeping.

You too can have yummy confinement food! Grill portobello mushroom with olive oil, salt and pepper in the "gills". Melt cheese and top with bacon bits. Serve alongside spaghetti aglio olio with bacon, garlic, pepper flakes, basil, and parsley. The side vegetables are carrots (pre-steamed) and snow peas stir-fred with a touch of mirin. Garnish with parsley.

Friday 13 October 2006

Burp - Sun - Bloat - Snooze


This is what Ethan's 2 week old life consists of right now... can you see his little tummy is slightly bloated? He usually has a strong chest and slim waist (from Dad perhaps?) but he's quite bloated so has been taking smaller feeds and waking up more frequently. He's not upset so its not cholic but we can't get all that wind out... tips anyone? Last night he woke up 3 times to feed cos of this so poor Mum is very tired. Dad amazingly slept through every single one of them -special sleeping gift of his!

Thursday 12 October 2006

Burp Bonanza

Urrrrpp! Ethan seems to be getting more wind recently so we have to be more conscientous at burping him. Otherwise he quickly wakes up and gets irritable. After a good feed from Mummy he loves to get burped by Dad. He used like the sling-over-the-shoulder position but he seems to prefer resting on Dad's chest. He promptly fell asleep soon after this photo was taken and is now sunning himself again in his favourite place in the whole world... his bed. Nothing like a good snooze after a good meal.

Wednesday 11 October 2006

A Rushed Bath

Silly me, got changed and almost left the house today and forgot to bathe my son! As a result, I think he sensed I was rushing and fussed a bit more than usual. He usually looooves bath time with Dad, but cried more than usual today. He was whimpering most of the time, but looks happy in the pic below cos he loves the camera!

Tuesday 10 October 2006

Sunbathing


Poor Ethan had a tougher time these last 2 days. He has a slight yellowing, so we're sunning him to treat the mild jaundice. It affects his sleeping though cos he doesn't like being in the open and would much prefer swaddled tightly. He's a trooper though, and puts up with most things with some soothing from Mum and Dad. It helps that he has inherited our giftedness in sleeping and this is proving to be a good asset in our household.

Can you see that after a few washings, the mittens have shrunk and now fit him properly!? And after a few bathings he now seems to enjoy bath times with Dad almost as much as Ivan does. Today, he thought it would be funny to squirt Dad with an extended gush just as he was being carried to the bathroom...

Sunday 8 October 2006

My Baby's had a Baby



Ah Kong & Por Por came over with lunch today and were reminiscing about how Mummy was once as small as I was! Here's the other matching 3 generations picture to complete the post from yesterday.